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1.批评要实事求是,公正合理孩子出现不良行为,家长批评孩子应实事求是,公正合理,允许孩子陈述辩白,在没把真相搞清之前不能批评孩子。2.批评要及时批评孩子要及时,该批评的立即批评,不要说什么“等你爸爸(妈妈)回来时,让他教训你”之类的话延误时机。如果隔段时间再批评,会让孩子认为家长是在找借口训他,不仅不接受现在的批评,还可能使孩子产生逆反心理。
1. Criticism To seek truth from facts, fair and reasonable child adverse behavior, parents should be realistic and fair criticism of children, fair and reasonable, allowing children to state their defense, can not criticize the child until the truth is clear. 2. Criticism To promptly criticize the child in time, the criticism should be immediately criticized, not to say anything “Delay the moment when your dad (mom) comes back and let him teach you”. If the time of the re-criticism, let the children think that parents are excuse to teach him, not only do not accept the current criticism, but also may make the child rebellious.