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我女儿是3年级的小学生。在家庭以外的环境里,她是一个懂事、聪明的孩子,老人们都称她是“小人精”。可在家里,她常常发脾气、坐立不安,有点凡事都不顺心的感觉。当她心情好时,说出来的话让你心里甜滋滋的,可发起狠来都有掐死你的心。还有,她时时都在观察我的表情,总让我笑。不管什么情况下,我没了笑容,她就要说:“妈妈又不笑了。”当我勉强地笑时,她也能感觉我的不开心,总是问:“妈妈,为什么你跟别人说话都笑眯眯的,可跟我说话就不笑。”这给我很大压力。我是一个40多岁的妈妈,生活的压力很大,感觉有些喘不过气来。而女儿又是一个随时都要妈妈的人。不管是写作业,还是玩,总是希望我同她在一起做。比她快了不行,慢了也不行,让她没新鲜感还不行。因此,我这个妈妈很烦,很急躁。我应该怎么对待她? 北京小姚
My daughter is a grade 3 pupil. She is a sensible, intelligent child outside the home, and the elderly call her a “villain”. At home, she often temper, restless, a little uncomfortable feeling everywhere. When she is in a good mood, if she says it, she will have a sweet heart and may start to strangle your heart. Also, she always observed my expression, always let me laugh. No matter what the case, I did not smile, she would say: “Mom laughed again. ” When I grudging, she can feel my unhappy, always ask: “Mom, why You talk to others are smiling, can not talk to me to laugh. ”This gives me a lot of pressure. I am a 40-year-old mother, a lot of pressure of life, I feel a little breathless. And the daughter is another person who always wants her mother. Whether it is homework, or play, I always hope I do with her. Not faster than she, not too slow, so she did not feel fresh enough. Therefore, my mother is annoying and impatient. How should I treat her? Beijing Xiao Yao