听许多琴童的父母感叹：陪孩子练琴是最头痛的事。我也看过报纸报道：某某家孩子要把钢琴用斧子劈掉,某某家孩子一见钢琴就发抖……结果望子成龙、盼女成凤的希望落空，父母倍感失落。其实，造成失败的原因不在孩子，根源在父母的教育方法和思维方式。父母往往过度注重孩子单纯 Listen to many piano children’s parents lament: accompany the children to practice the piano is the most headaches. I have also read the newspaper reports: So and so children have to use the ax to split the piano, a certain child saw the piano trembling ... ... results Succeed in looking forward to the hope of women Cheng Feng, parents feel lost. In fact, the reason for the failure is not children, roots in parental education methods and ways of thinking. Parents tend to overly focus on children simply