我的儿子读高一,我一直非常用心地教育他。他很聪明,小时候各方面都不错,但越大越难管,成绩已到了中下水平。初中开始时,有一天上课,他突然放了一个响屁,被周围同学听到了,其实下课后并没有人说这事。但他心里就放不下了,当天就从学校给我打电话说恨不能找一个地缝钻进去。我开导了他,他当时不吱声了,但周末回来他还在说,周一返校后,他中午和晚上又给我打电话纠结这件事。他大约从初中开始,整天都是纠结这些小事,没心思学习。我每次都尽量耐心劝说,但怎么劝都无济于事,每次都被他搞得心情烦躁,到最后只能发脾气。 My son is a freshman and I have been educating him very hard. He is very clever, all ages are good, but the bigger the more difficult, the results have reached the middle and lower levels. At the beginning of junior high school, one day class, he suddenly put a ring fart, was heard around the students, in fact, after class no one said it. But he could not let go of his heart, the same day I called from the school that can not wait to find a place to drill into it. I enlightened him, and he did not say a word yet, but on the weekend he was still saying that after returning to school on Monday, he telephoned me again at noon and in the evening. He started from junior high school, all day tangled these little things, did not mind learning. I try my best to persuade each time, but how to persuade all to no avail, every time he was upset by irritability, in the end only temper.