通常,我们说一个人不爱说话,常与性格内向有关,又或者更严重的说,这个人可能有自闭症。可再想一想,又不尽然,特别是网络流行的今天,“不爱说话”现象更为普遍。那么,说话是干什么的呢?它是表达内心的想法、感受和情感的,是完成内心思维意识化的一个工具,也是完成人际交流和沟通的手段。而不爱说话的人,难道就是不需要表达?没有内心想法、感受和情感的吗?当然不是,说话作为一种社会交往手段,有时候“不说”也是一种交往方式。那么,从心理的角度来说,“不爱说话”都有哪些心理机制呢?心理专家许浩 Often, we say that a person does not like to speak, and is often associated with introverted, or more serious, that this person may have autism. Think again, not necessarily, especially today, the Internet is popular, “do not love talking ” phenomenon is more common. So, what is the purpose of speaking? It is to express the inner thoughts, feelings and emotions, is to complete the inner thinking of a tool, but also to complete interpersonal communication and communication means. But do not talk to people, is it do not need to express? There is no inner thoughts, feelings and feelings? Of course not, talking as a means of social interaction, and sometimes “do not say ” is also a way of communication. So, from a psychological point of view, “do not love talking ” What are the psychological mechanisms? Psychologist Xu Hao