这期“家教话题”,我又请来了我们的老朋友、著名儿童文学作家张微先生来谈谈关于中学生“早恋”的话题。这个话题引起过许多父母的关注和担忧。然而如何来界定“早恋”的内涵与外延,如何以正确的方法来看待这个问题,却是父母们所困惑不解的。我想,父母们读了这篇文章一定会有启发的,只要能“沉住气,别紧张”,细心体察并理解孩子,许多问题就会迎刃而解。希望你们来信谈谈自己的想法。 In this issue of “Tutoring,” I invited again our old friend, Mr. Zhang Wei, a famous writer of children’s literature, to talk about “puppy love” in middle school students. This topic has aroused the concern and concern of many parents. However, how to define the connotation and extension of “puppy love”, how to treat this problem in a correct way is puzzled by parents. I think parents will surely have some inspiration when they read this article. As long as they can “calm their breath and do not be nervous,” they should understand and understand their children carefully and many problems will be solved. I hope you can write letters and talk about your own ideas.