阿剑:观生老师,每个人对讲座内容的理解会受制于他过去的经历、背景,一千个读者读完会有一千个哈姆雷特这很正常,在精神危机的今天,感谢您的智慧。有一个现实的问题想求教,那就是逃离还是坚守北上广?我现在南方一座城市工作,已婚,但由于高房价,没有买房,也不敢要小孩。这里不仅生活成本高,而且远离我的家乡——一所中部城市农村。时刻揪心父母,很想回 A sword: Observatory teacher, everyone’s understanding of the contents of the lecture will be subject to his past experience, background, a thousand readers will have a reading of Hamlet this is normal, in a crisis of spirit, thank you for your wisdom . There is a real problem to ask, that is to flee or adhere to the north? I now work in a southern city, married, but because of high prices, did not buy a house, did not dare to have children. Not only is it high cost of living here, but it is also far from my hometown, a rural part of central China. Always worried parents, want to go back