儿童有自己的生活,让儿童脱离自己的生活而进入成人安排的不符合他生活本性的生活,就如同将鱼从原生态的水域捉往鱼缸,这对儿童的成长十分有害。如果让儿童生活在一个不符合自己本能、兴趣、需要的生活中,儿童必然十分尴尬和痛苦。因为在这样的生活里,儿童的天性受到压抑,他找 Children have their own life, leaving children out of their own lives and into adult-arranged lives that are not in the nature of his life, just as it is to move fish from the pristine waters to the aquarium, which is detrimental to children’s growth. Children must be awkward and painful if they are to live in a life that does not meet their instincts, interests and needs. Because in this life, children’s nature is suppressed, he found