美国家庭治疗大师萨提亚说:“当孩子确实有错误需要纠正时,充满慈爱的父母通常会采取很坦诚的办法,询问原因,倾听孩子的心声,给予关爱和理解,同时体会孩子的感受。最后,才利用恰当的时机,等孩子自然地想倾听时才给他们讲道理。”可见,如果父母能心平气和地对待孩子,和孩子坦诚沟通,站在孩子的角度看待问题,就不容易和孩子造成矛盾与隔阂。本文主要介绍一些方法帮助父母们管理自己的脾气,从而心平气和地和孩子沟通。 Satya, the American home therapy master, said: “When the child does have a mistake and needs to be corrected, loving parents usually take a very honest approach, asking why, listening to the child’s voice, giving love and understanding, and feeling the child’s feelings Finally, we use the right time to give reason when children naturally want to listen. ”" So it is not easy for parents to treat their children calmly, communicate candidly with their children, and view the issues from a child’s point of view. And children create conflicts and estrangement. This article focuses on ways to help parents manage their temper, and to calmly communicate with their children.