“现在的孩子真不听话!”经常听家长如是说。“现在的学生真不好管!”经常听老师如是说。其实只要教育得法,真正地走进孩子的心里,孩子还是听话的,好管的。理解和尊重就是搭建我们与孩子心灵沟通的桥梁。一次,有位家庭贫困的女生因一念之差偷拿了学生寄存在我办公桌抽屉的钱。我思前想后,最后决定,少一些愤怒,多一份理解;少一些指责,多一份尊重,柔亦能克刚。那天班会课,我神情凝重地宣布失盗的事情后,安静的教室 “Now the children really do not listen! ” Often listen to parents say. “Students are really bad now! ” Often listen to the teacher said. In fact, as long as education is legal, really into the child’s heart, the child is still obedient, well managed. Understanding and respecting is the bridge between us and our children’s mind. Once, a poor girl in the family stole the money the student had deposited in the drawer of my desk. When I think about it, I finally decided that I should be less angry and understand more. I should be less accusatorial, more respectful and softer. Class class that day, I solemnly declared stolen things after the quiet classroom