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小钢跟爸爸妈妈到亲戚家里去玩,回家时总爱悄悄地把自己喜欢吃的东西藏到口袋里带回来;他还常常从幼儿园私自带回喜爱的玩具。小钢的爸爸妈妈对此不但从不批评,反而认为孩子还小,“顺手牵羊”没关系,甚至觉得他挺“机灵”。是个“聪明”、“能干”的孩子。小钢爸爸、妈妈的这种姑息迁就的态度是很要不得的。因为小时候爱贪小便宜,大起来就有可能发展成偷窃,若不及时纠正,养成习惯以后就很难改了。那么,孩子为什么会“顺手牵羊”呢?分析一下,事情往往发生在以下几种情况: 一、家教不严。有的父母对孩子的一切要求都予以满足,使得孩子心中没有是非标准。他想得到什么东西,就会毫无顾忌地去拿,而不知道私拿别人的东
Small steel with mom and dad to relatives to play at home, always love quietly put their favorite things to hide in his pocket to bring back; he often privately from kindergarten back favorite toys. Small steel mom and dad not only not criticized, but think the child is still small, “go hand in hand” does not matter, even think he is “clever.” Is a “smart”, “capable” child. Small steel father, mom’s indulgent attitude is very important. Because childhood love corruption cheap, it is likely to develop into a big thief, if not corrected in time, it is difficult to change after the formation of habits. So, why children “go hand in hand”? Analysis, things often happen in the following situations: First, tacit education. Some parents are satisfied with all the requirements of the child, so that children have no non-standard mind. He wants something, he will go without hesitation, but do not know privately take others east