四岁的小外孙亮亮跟我一起生活,清晨由他妈送他上托儿所,傍晚接他回家。亮亮傍晚一进家门,来不及进屋就径直跑到街坊家去找小伙伴儿玩;东家的小伟不在,扭头又去找西家的小方。为求小伙伴儿开心地跟自己玩,什么心爱的玩具、画册、糖果都一齐送上,在所不惜。他妈怕他在邻居家讨人嫌,哄他回屋来看电视,他也总不肯。亮亮和邻居小伙伴彼此简直成了『莫逆』,谁也离不开谁。幼儿在托儿所、幼儿园与小朋友相处,那毕竟是得服从阿姨『管教』的、『正规』的校园生活;而在家与邻居小伙伴儿玩耍,则可称是无拘无束的『业余』生活了。青年人业余常邀知己去看场电影;离退休的老人常找友朋聊天、下象棋;幼儿『业余』怎能 The four-year-old little grandson liangliang lived with me and was taken to his nursery school by his mother in the early morning and returned to him home in the evening. Bright evening into the house, late into the house went straight to the neighbors to find a small partner to play children; Xiaowei home is not, turned around and looked for the West side of the small square. In pursuit of small partners happy to play with their own, what beloved toys, pictures, candy are sent together, at the expense. His mom afraid he was too suspicious in his neighbors, coax him back to the house to watch TV, he always refused. Brilliant and neighbors with each other little partners have become “Mo Ni” who can not do without. When children get along with nurseries and kindergartens in the nurseries, they are, after all, obeying the “regular” campus life taught by their aunts. Playing at home with their neighbors can be described as a free-wheeling “amateur” life. Amateur youth often invite friends to see the movie; retired elderly friends and relatives often find friends chatting, playing chess; children “amateur” how can