家庭教育的主要“老师”是父母。当父母的人,要做好这一“本职工作”,也并不容易。尽管现在多是一对夫妻一个孩子,即一个“学生”两位“老师”,但严父、慈母的传统伦理在小家庭中仍然起着不可忽视的作用,以致父母并没有把孩子当作“学生”。孩子也没把父母看成“老师”。有的孩子,在学校里听从老师教导,遵守纪律、爱护公物,认真学习,乐于助人,回到家里却成了霸王,十分任性,乃至飞扬跋扈。做父母的为了 The main “teacher” of family education is parents. When parents, it is not easy to do this “own job.” Although it is now mostly a couple and a child, that is, two “teachers” who are “students,” the traditional ethics of the strict and the beloved mother still play a non-negligible role among the small families, so that their parents do not regard their children as “ student”. Children do not think of parents as “teachers.” Some children, in the school to listen to the teacher to teach, discipline, love of public property, serious study, helpfulness, back home but became overlord, very headstrong, and even domineering. In order to be parents