我们总自以为是理性的,其实那不过是惯性。“我常常会问自己:这是不是我想要的生活?但是,答案总是否定的。”五年前,跟我说这句话的是一位在巴黎艰难求学的复旦女孩,当时她和我都住在巴黎南郊大学城的东南亚楼,偶尔过来串门聊天。生活的艰难和孤 We always think that is rational, in fact, it is just inertia. “I often ask myself: Is this the life I want? But the answer is always negative.” Five years ago, what told me was a Fudan girl who was studying hard in Paris, I live in South East Asia University City, in the southern suburbs of Paris, where I occasionally come and chat. The hardships and loneliness of life