心理学家认为:“虐待是指通过利用恐吓、侮辱、及口头或身体上的攻击而控制与压制他人的任何行为”。也就是说,虐待有身体和心理之分。在婚姻生活中,除了对配偶施与身体虐待的男人以外,还有一种对配偶进行心理虐待的男人他们以侮辱性或攻击性的语言为武器,对女性造成极大的伤害。受虐女性可能会因长期遭受痛苦、恐惧、焦虑的折磨而身心疲惫,严重的会导致精神病。但遗憾的是,对于这种男人,大多数女性朋友并不了解,也没有恰当的应对方法。希望本文能为女性朋友提供一些帮助。 Psychologists think: “Abuse refers to any act of controlling and repressing others by using intimidation, humiliation, and verbal or physical attacks.” In other words, abusive physical and psychological points. In marital life, in addition to men who physically abuse their spouses, there is also a man who psychologically abuses spouses, who use insulting or offensive language as a weapon, causing great harm to women. Abused women may be mentally and physically exhausted due to prolonged suffering, fear and anxiety, which can lead to serious mental illness. Unfortunately, most female friends do not understand and do not have proper coping strategies for such men. Hope this article can provide some help for female friends.