幼儿生活自理能力是孩子独立性发展的第一步，是保证孩子全面发展的基础素质之一，幼儿园和家庭都应该重视培养。但在工作中我们发现，有些家长虽然也明白这个道理，但他们往往因自己工作忙，长辈愿意帮助，于是把对孩子的教育就交给了幼儿园和长辈；有些家长过分溺爱孩子... The ability of children to take care of themselves is the first step in the development of children’s independence and one of the basic qualities to ensure the all-round development of children. Kindergartens and families should pay attention to cultivating them. However, at work, we found that although some parents also understand this truth, they tend to be busy with their own work, and their elders are willing to help. Therefore, they give their children’s education to kindergartens and elders. Some parents over-spoil their children.