这些年,我深深感到女儿面对的“成长的烦恼”已不可与20年前我经历的事情同日而语。女儿属于第二代独生子女,他们所处的外部成长环境中有很多机会,也有更多诱惑。这对人的要求其实是更苛刻的,对于价值选择的考验也更加复杂多变。女儿被同学戏弄了有一天女儿放学回家,我发现她的两只眼睛肿得像桃子一样,眼角还挂着泪。我心里非常着急,很想知道发生了什么,但我沉住气,并没有马上问。我知道如果表现得过于慌张,可能会引起孩子更大的情绪波动。 All these years, I deeply feel that the “troubles of growing up” my daughter faces are no longer the same as those I experienced 20 years ago. Daughters belong to the second generation of only children, they are in the external environment there are many opportunities, but also more temptations. This human demand is actually more demanding, and the test of value choice is more complicated and changeable. My daughter was teased by my classmate One day my daughter came home from school and I found her two eyes swollen like peaches, with tear still hanging around her eyes. My heart was very anxious, I really want to know what happened, but I’m down and did not immediately ask. I know that if it is too much panic, it may cause children to have greater mood swings.