我一直在想,父母跟孩子之间的关系真是奇妙无比,像我与女儿小泥,有时可以相亲相爱、亲密无间,有时又可以争吵、气愤、斗智斗勇,像水火不容的人——两代人血脉相连得把爱怨都发挥到那么淋漓尽致。然而那么感性的爱意,到底不利于教育。这些年来我总结出,我与小泥最佳的关系是:做孩子的朋友,又不仅仅是朋友;做孩子的老师,又不仅仅是老师;做孩子的父母,又不仅仅是父母。我把朋友放在第一位。别高高在上,自以为是,大人容易犯的毛病就是自以为手持真理之剑。蹲下来,你便看到孩子的世界;尊重他, I’ve been wondering, the relationship between parents and children is really marvelous, like my little daughter and I can sometimes love each other, intimate, sometimes arguing, angry, wits, like water - two Generations of blood connected to love and resentment to play so vividly. However, so emotional love, in the end is not conducive to education. Over the years, I have come to the conclusion that the best relationship I have with Xiaodao is: being a friend of a child, not just a friend; being a child teacher, not just a teacher; a child’s parent, not just a parent. I put my friend first. Do not be lofty, self-righteous, adults easy to make mistakes is self-righteous sword. Squat down, you will see the child’s world; respect him,