土族“花儿”是土族人特别是土族妇女表达一份隐秘心理的最好的载体。因为表达的是一种隐秘的心理,在土族人的传统观念里“花儿”的演唱也就有了隐蔽性,也有很多的禁忌,比如不能在村庄周围演唱,演唱时要避开宗族亲情,还认为妇女们在大庭广众之下唱“花儿”就是一种不守妇道的表现等等。但是,“花儿”又是表达心声的一种最抒情、最含蓄的方式,在一些场合又最能尽情绽放一个人心中的喜怒哀乐。于是,“花儿”也有了“花儿本是心上的话,不唱是由不得 Turks and ”flowers“ are the best vehicles for Turkish and especially Turkish women to express a secret psychology. Because the expression is a kind of hidden psychology, in the traditional concept of Tu people ”Flower “ concert also has hidden, there are a lot of taboos, such as can not sang around the village, singing to avoid the clan Affection, but also that women sing under the crowd ”flowers “ is a kind of unruly behavior and so on. However, ”Flower “ is one of the most lyrical, the most subtle way to express their aspirations, in some occasions and most able to enjoy the emotions of a person’s heart. Thus, ”Flowers “ also has ”Flowers are the words of the heart, do not sing is not allowed