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在经历一个时期家庭危机的恐怖和整治之后,当代中国家庭,对于“婚外恋”、“第三者”似乎有了免疫力。一如“强奸”一词,由十年前的频频出现而家喻户晓,却在90年代濒于消亡一样,家庭成员与外界异性间的私情,一旦暴露,不再是清一色决斗的剑拔驽张,也不再是狼烟四起的内战外争,而是渐趋宁静、一派祥和。我们姑且称这种现象为“外治内乱”。这股和平迷雾下的私情,存在于都市各个阶层,因程度形式各异、时限长短不一,在万家灯火中,它像点点莹光,不可替代星月,却时隐时现,点缀着宁谧的夜空。有的,亮过无数个夜晚,有的则转瞬即逝。“外治内乱”的发生、发展及转归如何呢?“外治内乱”的存在,是一种公开的文明,还是一种潜在的威胁呢?两个残缺的女性与一个完整的家
After experiencing the horror and rectification of a family crisis in a certain period, contemporary Chinese families appear to have immunity to “extramarital affairs” and “third parties.” Just as the term “rape” was widely known ten years ago and was dying out in the 1990s, the personal affair between members of the family and the outside world once exposed is no longer the sword of all-out duel Zhang, is no longer the fierce fighting of civil war, but gradually calm, peaceful one. Let us call this phenomenon the “rule of civil strife outside”. This affair under the fog of peace exists in all strata of the city. Due to the varying degrees of time and varying lengths of time, in the midst of the lights, it is like a little bit of a flash of light that is irreplaceable to the moon and stars. However, A peaceful night sky. Some, bright numerous nights, while others are fleeting. What is the “Occurrence, Internal Dispute and Internal Dispute Wai”? What is the development and the return? "Is the existence of a civil war outside the country a public civilization or a potential threat? The two incomplete women and one complete s home