古人有“四观”来看人是否可交:“观人于临财,观人于临难,观人于忽略,观人于酒后。”这深入人性的四个方面:爱财是否取之有道,临难是否从容镇定,办事是否漫不经心,酒后是否放任自流。有分寸感就不贪,有意志力就不怕,有责任心就不懒,有自控性就不乱。 The ancients have “Four Views ” to see whether people can submit: “View people in the Lincai, view people in adversity, the concept of people in ignorance, the concept of people in drunkenness.” This is deeply into the four aspects of human nature: Whether Choi Choi Choi Choi Road, temporary calm calm calm, service is careless, drink whether to let go. Sense of proportion is not greedy, willpower is not afraid, there is a sense of responsibility is not lazy, self-control is not chaos.