编辑同志:我女儿快5岁了,家里大人都很宠爱她,平时还好,可当她气不顺时就要大发脾气,越哄越闹得凶,我该怎么对待? 霍珊霍珊同志:从小培养孩子有良好稳定的情绪很重要,常发脾气,对孩子健康性格的形成很不利。有的孩子生气时,总是用哭、叫或赖在地上蹬腿搓脚来发泄。如果你看到这种行为就让步,往往会助长孩子的这个毛病,实际上就等于教给孩子要想达到目的,就得发脾气。孩子发脾气的原因很多,有的是遇到冷落,待遇不公平或为了引起大人的注意,孩子往往也以哭闹做为解决问题的手段。这当然与以发脾气来要挟家长是两回事。为此要区别对待。纠正孩子爱发脾气的毛病,大人应首先严于律己,反省一下自己的教育态度和教育方法有无不恰当的地 Editor’s Comrade: My daughter is almost 5 years old, adults at home are very fond of her, usually okay, but when she is angry, she should lose his temper, the more the more the more the more fierce crime, how should I treat? Comrade: From childhood to develop a good emotional stability is very important, often temper, the formation of children’s healthy personality is very detrimental. When some children are angry, they always cried or called on the ground and rubbed their feet to vent. If you see this behavior to concessions, tend to contribute to the child’s problems, in fact, is equivalent to teach their children to achieve their goals, they have angry. Children lose their temper for many reasons, some are neglected, unfair treatment or in order to arouse the attention of adults, children often cry as a means to solve the problem. Of course, it is different from blackmailing parents to get angry. To this difference should be treated. Correct children love temper problems, adults should be strict with self-discipline, reflect on their own educational attitudes and methods of education is not inappropriate