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时代变了,环境变了,孩子变了,变得和我们小时候大不相同,读懂孩子的心也变成了一件难事。一、可怜天下孩子心儿子的一天通常是这样度过的：每天早晨7点起床,紧紧张张,吃过早饭去上学；上下午共6节正课,加1节课外小组活动,晚上5点回家。马上写作业、练琴,然后吃晚饭,再稍微磨蹭一下,看看电视,收拾收拾,就该上床睡觉了。上床前,他经常嘟囔的一句话就是：“我还没玩呢。”按说,双休应该是他们自身解放的日子吧,但是,他还得去上“奥数”或别的什么“强化班”,去私人老师家里学钢琴或别的什么乐器,甚至忙得连去看看爷爷、奶奶的时间都没有。孩子经常恳求：“妈(爸),让我玩一会儿吧!”如果遇到孩子一天表现都不错,作业也做得差不多,孩子将得到“通情达理”的回答：“去吧,就玩半小时啊。”否则,回答就难免“悲惨”了。
Times have changed, the environment has changed, the children have changed, and we are very different from childhood, to understand the child’s heart has become a difficult thing. First, poor child heart son’s son’s day is usually spent: get up every morning at 7 o’clock, Zhang Zhang Zhang, eat breakfast to go to school; the afternoon a total of 6 regular classes, plus 1 extra-curricular group activities, 5 pm Return home. Immediately homework, practice the piano, and then eat dinner, then a little rub, look at the TV, pack up, it is time to go to bed. Before going to bed, he often muttered a few words: “I have not played yet.” By the way, weekends should be their own liberation day, but he had to go to “Mathematical Olympiad” or something else “intensive class” , Go to the private teacher’s home to learn the piano or any other musical instruments, and even busy to see Grandpa, grandmother’s time did not. Children often plead: “Mom (dad), let me play for a while!” If you encounter a good day performance of the child, homework is also done almost, the child will be “sensible” answer: “go, play for half an hour ah ”Otherwise, the answer will inevitably be“ miserable. ”