在我们“宏大”的人生计划中,有自己的追逐目标,有妻子的年度愿望,有孩子的前途安排,可是,我们的父母呢?我们是否有将他们的老年生活纳入自己的人生计划里呢?作为子女的我们是否应该做一个安静的聆听者呢?突然有一天,我发觉父母越来越啰嗦了。早上要出门上班时,母亲会像小时候一样站在门口对我千叮咛万嘱咐。我不耐烦地对她说:“妈, In our ”grand“ life plan, we have our own pursuit goals, the annual wishes of our wives, and the arrangements for the future of our children. But what about our parents? Do we have to include their elderly life in their life plans Should we be a quiet listener as a child? Suddenly, one day, I noticed that my parents were more and more verbose. When going to work in the morning, my mother will stand in front of me like a child, and give me a thousand instructions. I impatiently said to her: ”Mom,