许多父母都头痛,为什么孩子进入小学了就开始叛逆?当我向他们请教,如何确定孩子进入叛逆期时,他们的回答通常只有一个:“孩子,越来越不听话了。”如果,用听不听话来评定一个孩子是否叛逆,这似乎太过武断了。在我们给孩子扣上“叛逆”的大帽子时,我们有没有想过,这个所谓的“叛逆期”很有可能是个伪命题? Many parents have a headache and why do children start rebellion when they enter primary school? When I ask them how to make sure that children are in rebellion, they usually answer only one answer: “Children, more and more disobedient.” If, It seems too arbitrary to judge whether or not a child is rebellious by not listening. Have we never thought that this so-called “rebellious period” is most likely to be a pseudo-proposition when we give our child a “hatred”?