自离婚后儿子一直跟我,前夫和他母亲同住,但他们父子关系也很亲密。我从小就失去了父亲,深知父爱对一个人健康成长的重要性,所以对儿子和他爸爸的往来十分支持。但是,随着儿子逐渐长大(今年11岁),父子矛盾也开始暴露出来。前夫性情暴躁,对儿子的态度有时武断了一些,儿子刚刚发育起来的自尊因此受到挫伤。 Since the divorce his son has been with me, ex-husband and his mother live, but their father-son relationship is also very close. Since I was an early age, I lost my father and knew the importance of parental love in the healthy growth of a person. Therefore, I strongly support my son and his father. However, with the gradual growth of his son (11 years old this year), father-son conflicts have also begun to emerge. Ex-husband’s temperament, his son’s attitude is sometimes arbitrary some of the son had just developed self-esteem thus bruised.