笔者系普通职员一名,有职无权,有家少财,唯有寒窗展卷,伏案笔耕之嗜好,“栽培”犬子读书殷殷之家教,拳拳之苦心。儿子在母腹躁动,以至在襁褓啼笑时,我依然沉浸陶醉在而立之年得子,初为人父的喜悦之中,尚未认识到早期教育的“重大意义”。等到儿子睁大眼睛环顾四周时,我才醒悟到,胎教良机已白白错过。该尽为父之责,该在“育”之前添上“教”字了。因为“父,家长率教者”(东汉许慎语),“养不教,父之过,”(《三字经》语)。家庭是人生的摇篮,父母是子女的首任老师,启蒙老师,何况只有一个孩子啊,未来面对的又是独生子女的社会,竞争的社会! The author is an ordinary staff member, there is no right to work, there is little money, only cold window roll, the case of pen hobby, “cultivation ” the earnest study of tutoring, boxing painstaking. When my son was restless in his mothers’ stomach and even was laughing and crying, I was still immersed in the joy of being as young as myself and reborn as a father, yet I still did not realize the “great significance” of early education. Waiting until my son widened his eyes and looked around, I realized that prenatal care opportunities have been mistaken. It is the father’s responsibility to add the word “education” before “education”. Because “Father, parents rate the teacher ” (Eastern Han Xu Shen language), “raise do not teach, the father had ” (“Three Character Classic” language). Family is the cradle of life. Parents are the first teachers and enlightenment teachers of their children. What is more, there is only one child. In the future, the one-child society and the competitive one are faced.