Q我儿子4岁,比同龄孩子胆子都小,但是还偏偏爱看爆炸、着火、车祸现场之类的图片,每次看到电视、报纸上类似的新闻都要求看很多遍。请问这是什么心理?是不是不该让他看?一方面,儿童常常喜欢看有冲突、对抗、冒险、甚至灾难的故事,不仅男孩如此,女孩也会这样,所有的孩子都会格外留意故事中的这些情节以及电视里的这样内容。为什么呢?因为幼儿需要通过这些外界的虚拟的冲突,来学习怎样处理危险和冲突对抗。当孩子听这样的故事、看这样的新闻 Q My son, who is 4 years old, is less timid than his peers. However, he also likes to watch pictures such as explosions, fires, and car accidents. Every time he sees a television or a newspaper, similar news is required many times. On the one hand, children often like to watch conflicts, confrontations, adventures and even catastrophic stories, not only boys but also girls. All children will pay special attention to the story These episodes and such content on television. Why? Because toddlers need to learn how to deal with danger and conflict confrontation through these virtual conflicts in the outside world. When children listen to such stories, look at such news