郑州一位家长来电问:“我们夫妻双方都是独生子女,我们的孩子更是享受着一大家子人给他的爱。现在孩子上学了,和同龄人相比,显得笨手拙脚的,很多事情都不会自理,需要家长帮忙才能完成。我发现,孩子不是不会做,而是依赖惯了。我希望孩子能变得自立自强,变得心灵手巧,那么,该怎样教育孩子,使他尽快自立起来呢?” Zhengzhou, a parent asked: “We are both husband and wife are the only child, our children enjoy the love of a lot of people to give him now the children go to school, compared with their peers, was clumsy , A lot of things do not take care of themselves, parents need help to complete.I found that the child is not not to do, but rely on the habit.I hope the child can become self-reliance, become dexterous, then, how to educate children, Make him self-reliance as soon as possible? ”