“养花先养根,育人先育德。”这句话正是教师在教书育人过程中所应遵循的规律,尤其是班主任或者辅导员,在使学生形成良好的思想品德和行为习惯过程中,起着他人乃至其父母都不可相提并论的作用。我们俩在与众多学生家长的交谈中,常听家长说子女在家不听话,家长说十句还不如老师说一句。其原因就在于教师能够根据少年儿童的身心发展特点,灵 "This is the teacher should follow the law in the process of teaching and educating people, especially the class teacher or counselor, to enable students to form a good ideological and moral and In the process of behavior, it plays a role that others and their parents can not compare with each other. In conversations with parents of many students, both of us often hear parents say their children are not obedient at home. The parents said that the sentence is not as good as the teacher said. The reason is that teachers can according to children’s physical and mental development characteristics, spirit