婆婆和媳妇似乎是天生的敌人。中华文化传统要求我们去像对待妈妈一样对待婆婆,还要求我们进了男方的家就要把男方的家人当作一家人来对待。确实,一旦结婚双方家庭就可以算是一家人了,不过婆婆确实没有一把屎一把尿地把你养大,你确实无法发自内心地把她当作妈妈,而婆婆也确实无法真的把你当成女儿对待。女儿与母亲有着天然的高包容性,相互发脾气都彼此可以 Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seem to be innate enemies. The Chinese cultural tradition requires that we treat our mother-in-law as a mother, and that we must treat the man’s family as a family when we enter the man’s home. Indeed, once both married families can be regarded as a family, but her mother does not have a handful of urine to raise you, you really can not heart to treat her as a mother, and her mother really can not really You treated as a daughter. Daughters and mothers have a natural high tolerance, mutual temper can each other