心理学界流传着这样一个小故事:心理医生问—个患者,为什么别人把头伸出窗外,看到的是满天星斗,你看到的却是满地烂泥?患者回答说:别人要看到的是星星,那也是让人一闷棍打出的满眼金星!——这就是焦虑,任何事情在他眼里只看到糟的一面。 杨意飞在一家网站工作,谈着不错的恋爱,拿着不低的薪水。可杨意飞却总是处于莫名的忧虑烦躁中,总是郁郁寡欢。她说不清自 The psychology community circulated a little story: The psychiatrist asks - a patient, why do somebody else put his head out of the window to see the starry sky, what you see is full of mud? The patient replies: what others want to see Is the star, it is also a satirical eye-catching Venus! - This is anxiety, anything in his eyes only see the bad side. Yang Yi Fei work in a website, talking about a good love, holding a low salary. Yang Yi Fei but always in inexplicable anxiety, always unhappy. She can not tell