常听一些年轻的父母们抱怨生儿育女太麻烦,既影响工作,又影响日常生活,有的甚至还影响夫妻感情,大有“早知今日何必当初”之感。做为“过来人”,他们的心情,他们的处境是可以理解的。从听到小宝宝的第一声啼哭起,两人世界便不再宁静,不再充满温馨,接踵而来的是孩子那不分昼夜的哭闹。尤其是初为父母,没有育儿 Often, some young parents complain that giving birth to a child is too troublesome. It affects both work and daily life, and some even affect the feelings of the couple. There is a great sense of “knowing when to start today”. As “people come”, their mood, their situation is understandable. From the moment you hear the first cry of a baby cry, the two worlds are no longer serene, no longer full of warmth, and the ensuing crying of children, day and night. Especially early as parents, no child care