说起虐待,容易使人理解为是对肉体的一种伤害。的确,在现实生活中,有家长“望子成龙”心切,而教育方法不当,往往行为过激、粗暴,甚至因体罚过度而造成悲剧。而这里要提出的都是极易被人们忽视的另一种灾难——对心灵的虐待。一次在幼儿园门口,我见到一位母亲正在声色俱厉地斥责孩子,——仅仅是因为孩子没有被评上好孩子:“每个星期都是这样,不见你有长进,你真叫我和你爸……我怎么就有你 Speaking of abuse, it is easy to understand as a kind of physical harm. Indeed, in real life, some parents are “eager for success.” However, improper methods of education often lead to acts of excesses, rudeness and tragedies caused by over-corporal punishment. And here are all other disasters that are easily overlooked by people - the abuse of the soul. Once in front of the kindergarten, I saw a mother who was rebuking her child with fondness - simply because the child was not appraised as a good boy: "Every week, this is the way you see me and your dad ... how do I have you