当今社会,单亲家庭越来越多。由于这特殊的家庭结构,因而在子女的教养方式上就更应注重科学性。首先,注意不要过度保护。在丧偶或离异之后,为父母者常常会把自己所有的感情和爱倾注到孩子身上,对孩子关怀备至。孩子则衣来伸手,饭来张口,不必为自己的生活安排和学业计划操心,一切自有爸爸或妈妈代作主张。日子一久,孩子的依赖性就会增加。在这种环境下成长起来的孩子,脆弱、依赖、缺乏主见和独立意识,一旦离开了家长,便茫然不知所措。 In today’s society, there are more and more single-parent families. Due to this special family structure, more emphasis should be placed on science in the way of children’s rearing. First, take care not to over-protect. After being widowed or divorced, parents often devote their feelings and love to their children and care for their children. Children wear clothes to hand, rice to open their mouths, do not have to arrange for their own lives and school plans to worry about, all their own father or mother on behalf of the idea. As time goes on, the child’s dependence will increase. Children who have grown up in such an environment are vulnerable, dependent, lacking in opinions and independent consciousness. Once they leave their parents, they are overwhelmed.