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当孩子大喊“我不要上幼儿园”往往是在表达情绪,并不是真的不去。Q:我都在幼儿园陪了两个星期了,孩子跟所有老师、所有小朋友都认识了,怎么还是不适应啊?每天早晨还是哭着不肯进去呀?A:陪园能帮助孩子熟悉陌生环境,并不能解决亲子分离的问题。解决亲子分离的问题,必须首先分离。所以,真正分离的时刻,才是挑战的开始,孩子哭闹是非常正常的情绪表现。Q:当孩子抱着我的大腿哭喊:“妈妈我求求你,我好好吃饭,就是别送我上幼儿园,好不好?”看着她绝望的小眼神,我的心都要碎了。如果我坚持转身离开,会不会伤了孩子的心?
When the children shout “I do not want to kindergarten ” is often in the expression of emotions, and not really do not go. Q: I have spent two weeks in kindergarten, the children with all the teachers, all children have met, how are still not adapted? Every morning or crying will not go in? A: to accompany children to help children familiar with unfamiliar environment , Can not solve the problem of parent-child separation. Solve the separation of parent-child problems, we must first separate. Therefore, the real moment of separation is the beginning of the challenge, child crying is a very normal emotional expression. Q: cry when my child hugs my thigh: “Mom, I beg you, I’m good to eat, just do not send me to kindergarten, okay?” "Look at her little desperation eyes, my heart broken It’s If I insist on turning away, will not hurt the child’s heart?