当我们成为父母的时候,作为我们自身其实并没有太大的改变。我们仍然要吃五谷杂粮,仍然会有喜怒哀乐,仍然有时候想懈怠自己,做一些不太“光明”的事情。但是不同的是,我们的生活中时时会有一双眼睛在看着我们。尤其在很多家庭都只生育一个孩子的今天,父母和孩子的关系愈发紧密,父母和孩子的私领域都越来越小,我们有越来越多的时间在彼此的视力所及的范围内。 面对这样的事实,父母一方面自身应当更加完善自己,在和孩子的相处中,多留给自己与孩子 When we became parents, we did not change much as ourselves. We still have to eat whole grains, and we still have emotions. Sometimes we still want to slack ourselves and do something less “bright.” But the difference is that there are always eyes in our life looking at us. In particular, as many families have only one child today, the relationship between parents and children is becoming more and more intense. The parents and children’s private areas are getting smaller and smaller. We spend more and more time within each other’s eyesight . Faced with such a fact, on the one hand, parents should be more perfect themselves, and get along with their children, more for themselves and their children