论文部分内容阅读
家长们有一句至理名言,每个孩子心中都很明白,那就是,其他人都这么做,这并不是说你也应该这么做。无论是在操场上,还是在聚会上,小家伙们每当要作出选择时,这句咒语般的话就会在耳边回响。但是,这句忠告显然家长们更需要。新罕布什尔大学家庭问题研究实验所的一位负责人、社会学家默里·斯特劳斯的一项新研究表明,每当孩子违反了纪律,许许多多的家长就忍不住要大发脾气。他提醒说:“家长们绝对不可呵斥和叫喊,也不可用伤人的话责骂孩子。”然而对991名家长进行
Parents have a well-known saying. Every child knows well that that is what other people do. This is not to say that you should do the same. Whether on the playground or at the party, the curse-like words will ring in the ear whenever the little guys make a choice. However, this advice is obviously more needed by parents. A new study by Murray Strauss, a sociologist and head of the Institute of Family Problems Research at the University of New Hampshire, shows that whenever a child violates discipline, many parents can’t help losing temper. . He reminded: “Parents must not be scolded or yelled, nor can they scold others for hurting children.” However, 991 parents