美国孩子讲话做事的神态、口吻,与大人一样,跟他们讲话,像是对着一个小大人。孩子常常对父母说:“你伤了我的感情。”“我非常生气。”“我不会这样做,因为……”“你们为什么会……?”“我觉得……”他们称呼父母,有时用名字,如约翰、玛丽亚、彼得等等。在与美国家庭的交往中,我发现美国父母对孩子成长过程中的有关素质与能力都相当关注。那么美国父母是从哪些方面培养孩子素质的呢? American children speak the demeanor, tone, and adults, like to talk to them, as if facing a young man. Children often say to their parents: “You hurt my feelings.” “I’m very angry.” “I will not do it because ...” “Why do you ...?” “I think ...” They call their parents, Sometimes by name, such as John, Maria, Peter and many more. In my contacts with American families, I found that American parents are very concerned about the quality and ability of their children in their growth. So from what aspects of American parents to develop children’s quality it?