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人们习惯以年富力强来赞美中年男人。不错,社会也好,家庭也罢,中年男人的确都是顶梁柱。殊不知,正因此,人在中年的心灵才最需要关照。中年男人面对着婚姻与家庭中的许多问题,肩负着生活与事业中的很多重担。不论就家庭来说,还是就社会而言,中年男人都承受着最大的心理压力。最近,联合国教科文组织在一份报告中指出,从世界各国大量的统计资料看,43岁到45岁之间男人,在生理和心理上将发生巨大的变化,为此把44岁作为一个分界点。生活的真实正是这样,一面是人的生命曲线从高峰下滑,一面是生活的负担曲线正在上升,这两条曲线如同剪刀一样,相交处通常正是44岁左右。所以,44岁,正是“中年剪刀”的轴,44岁,好像横在男人面前的一道槛,一道心理上的门槛。当然,我们不必太局限于44岁。不过,从心理咨询的大量个案看,处于这个年龄段的中年男人,确实面临着心理上种种困扰。
People are used to compliment middle age men with their prime. Good, social Ye Hao, family worth mentioning, middle-aged men are indeed the pillar. As everyone knows, because of this, people in the middle of the most in need of care. Middle-aged men face many problems in marriage and family, shouldering a lot of burdens in life and career. Middle-aged men are under the greatest psychological pressure, both for their families and for society. Recently, UNESCO pointed out in a report that from the large amount of statistical data in various countries in the world, men and women between the ages of 43 and 45 will make great physical and psychological changes. For this reason, 44 years old shall be regarded as a boundary point. The real life is such that one side is the curve of human life falling from the peak, while the burden of living curve is rising, the two curves like scissors, the intersection is usually about 44 years old. So, 44 years old, it is the “middle-aged scissors ” axis, 44 years old, seems to cross a threshold in front of men, a psychological threshold. Of course, we do not have to be too limited to 44. However, from a large number of psychological counseling cases, middle-aged men in this age group do face psychological distress.