【苇月的话】我常常收到一些中学生朋友这样的来信:我不漂亮,我不够聪明,我成绩不好,我太胖,我个子不高,我没有好朋友……他们苦恼着,深深地叹息着。这,些在他们看来非常重大的烦恼却会令父母们哑然失笑,不理解这些生命中的琐屑怎么会让孩子们如此难过。朋友们的来信让我想起初中时的自己,一个梳着清汤挂面短发的女孩,抱着烦恼和仙 [October Month] I often receive letters from middle school students: I am not pretty, I am not smart enough, I am not good, I am too fat, I am not tall, I am not good friends... They are distressed, deeply Sighed. This, some of the annoyances that seem to be very important to them, will make the parents laugh. They don’t understand how trivial in life can make children so sad. The letters from my friends reminded me of myself in junior high school, a girl with short hair with a clear noodle, holding her troubles and immortals.