刘兵是我的一位大学同学,在市里一家银行工作。在前不久的一次聚会上,喝了点酒的刘兵向我倾诉了自己的烦恼——他和儿子之间的问题。刘兵说,儿子今年15岁了,念初三,平时在家里和他的关系很紧张。他也知道儿子正处在青春期,想和儿子做朋友,进行推心置腹的交流,可儿子就是不买账。为此,他做了种种努力,可父子间却越来越疏远。现在,儿子连话都不愿意跟他说了。“唉!这小子都这么大了,一点儿也不懂事,有时候我真想狠狠揍他一顿……”刘兵显得十分无奈地说。 Liu Bing is one of my college classmates, a bank in the city. At a recent party, Liu Bing, who had drunk some wine, told me his troubles - the problem between him and his son. Liu Bing said that his son is 15 years old this year and remembers his third year. Usually, his relationship with him is very tense at home. He also knows that his son is in adolescence, want to be friends with his son, to push the heart of the exchange, but the son is not buy it. To this end, he has done all sorts of efforts, but father and son are more and more distant. Now, my son did not even talk to him about it. “Oh! This kid is so big, not sensible at all, and sometimes I really want to beat him a meal ... ... ” Liu Bing said very reluctantly.