我的一个学生曾向我诉说:老师,我的性格内向、很孤僻,这主要源于两年前的那次中考失利,我只好选择了职高。自那以后,我常常都郁寡欢,内心烦躁,平时言语极少,闷闷不乐,与别人说话时心情紧张,总认为男口人常在背后议论自己没出息,感到十分压抑,自卑感越来越强。经常想树立起信心,却难以付诸行动,成绩越来越差,我该怎么办?听了这位同学的话,我陷入了深深的沉思:的确,一个人如果陷入了烦恼的汪洋大海,日子,真是不好过。其实,自卑和自信都是一种心理现象,并非生而有之。就说自卑吧,它源于人对自己的否定性看法 One of my students once told me: Teacher, my introverted, very withdrawn, mainly due to the failure of the senior high school two years ago, I had to choose the job level. Since then, I have often been melancholy, heart irritable, usually very few words, depressed, talking to others in a tense mood, always think that men are often behind the discussion of their own interest, feel very depressed, inferior inferiority is getting stronger and stronger . Often want to establish confidence, but difficult to put into action, the performance is getting worse, what should I do? Listened to the classmate’s words, I fell into a deep contemplation: indeed, if a person plunge into the ocean of troubles, Days, really bad. In fact, inferiority and self-confidence are all psychological phenomena that are not born. Say it low self-esteem, it comes from people’s negative view of themselves