去年秋天在南通地区某中学开讲座,结束后一位姓张的父亲曾经和我做过简短的交流,记得他说老师反映他儿子张翔(化名)喜欢和女生玩。当时从张先生的语气听出,他觉得儿子的行为很不正常,老师在家长会上专门跟他说这样的事让他觉得很丢人。他非常赞同老师的观念,认为儿子就应该和男生在一起。他很难理解为什么自己儿子一下课就朝女 Last autumn, a lecture was held in a middle school in Nantong. After the meeting, a father who surnamed Chang once had a brief conversation with me. He remembered that the teacher said his son Zhang Xiang (a pseudonym) likes to play with girls. At that time, Mr. Zhang’s tone was heard, he felt his son’s behavior is not normal, the teacher at the parents meeting told him that such a thing makes him feel very shameful. He very much agree with the teacher’s concept, that the son should be with boys. It is hard for him to understand why his son faces a woman after class