在生活中,常可见到一些3至5岁的儿童暴怒之下产生打人骂人等现象,我们称为进攻性行为。为什么在这个年龄阶段会出现这种进攻性行为呢?其原因大致有以下几点:1.内抑制功能差幼儿时期,大脑仍以兴奋为主,所以儿童显得易喧闹和冲动。当遇到不顺心的事时,有一种急不可待的冲动。本世纪30年代,西方一些心理学家认为,儿童进攻性行为与受挫折有关。例如:5岁的小刚要与同伴在街心花园玩,但父亲不许小刚离开家,于是小刚很生气。如果过去小刚曾因对父亲不礼貌而受到过责打的话,则在前后联想之下,小刚产生了另一种转移性的进攻性行为,如撕父亲所看的报纸、拆坏自己的玩具、用脚踢家具等。2.玩具的作用一些家长投孩子所好,特别是给男孩买手枪、大刀、宝剑等玩 In life, you can often see some children 3 to 5 years of age fury resulting in attacks such as assault, we call offensive behavior. Why at this age there will be such offensive behavior? The reason is roughly the following: 1. In the poor suppression of early childhood, the brain is still mainly excited, so children seem easy noisy and impulsive. There is an impulsive impulse when it comes to something that does not go down. In the 1930s, some western psychologists believed that offensive behavior of children was related to setbacks. For example: 5-year-old Xiao Gang and his companion to play in the Garden of the Street, but his father was not allowed Xiaogang to leave home, so Xiaogang very angry. If, in the past, Xiaogang had been blamed for being impolite to his father, Xiaogang produced another offensive and offensive act under the pre-and-post recollection of newspapers such as tearing up his father’s newspaper and dismantling his own Toys, kicked furniture. 2. The role of toys Some parents vote for children, especially for boys to buy pistols, knives, swords and other play