在对100名中小学教师提出“你热爱学生吗”的调查中,有90%以上的教师回答“是”。但是,再向这100名教师所教的学生进行“你体会到教师对你的爱了吗”的调查,回答“体会到”的仅占10%。为什么学生的看法会与教师的期望有如此巨大的反差?是学生对教师的满腔热情和辛苦付出不尊重吗?答案是否定的。依我看,这是不少教师对学生施爱存在一些认识上的误区使然。教师都爱自己的学生,但教师 In a survey of 100 primary and secondary school teachers who said, “Do you love students?”, More than 90% of the teachers answered “yes.” However, a further 10% of the students who were taught by the 100 teachers were asked “Did you realize that your teacher loved you?” Why do students' perceptions have such huge contrasts with teachers' expectations? Are students disrespectful to teachers' enthusiasm and hard work? The answer is no. In my opinion, this is a misunderstanding on the part of many teachers for applying love to students. Teachers love their own students, but teachers