目前,有些学校的部分师生之间情绪公开对立,学生对老师出言不逊、不理不问、甚至感到厌恶,而老师则粗暴地采取不让上课、赶出教室、交学校处理、请家长等手段。这类型的现象在我们身边确实存在,并时有发生,使我们广大教师不得不重新认真审视一下自己。素质教育的基本观念是:全体性、全面性、个性化,这就要求我们教育工作者在教育、教学过程中要研究差异、 At present, some teachers and students in some schools openly oppose each other’s emotions. The students make exaggerated, careless or even disgusted comments on the teachers while teachers rudely resort to disobeying classes, dropping out of classrooms, handling schools and asking for help from parents . This type of phenomenon does exist around us and occurs from time to time, so that the vast majority of our teachers have to re-examine themselves seriously. The basic concept of quality education is: holistic, comprehensive, personalized, which requires us educators in education, teaching process to study differences,