处在青春期的中学生渴望交往,但在交往过程中容易以自我为中心,导致很多学生因处理不好人际关系而苦恼。一项调查研究显示,社交问题在困扰学生的所有问题中排在第一位;随着年龄的增长和不断扩大的交往需要,学会交往、善于与人合作成为学生成长的重要素质和能力,而做到“心中有他人”是处理好和谐人际关系的基础。 Middle-school students who are adolescent long to socialize, but they tend to be self-centered during communication, leaving many students distressed by poor relationships. A survey shows that social problems rank the first place among all the problems that plague students. With age and ever-expanding contacts, learning to socialize and being good at co-operation have become important qualities and abilities for students’ growth. However, To do “others in the heart ” is the foundation to handle harmonious interpersonal relationship.