长期以来,心理学界和教育界一直在倡导快乐童年理论。然而,近日一些儿童心理学家提出了另外的观点。他们认为孩子们在追求幸福快乐的时候,应该接受挫折和痛苦的考验。在生命过程中,幸福和痛苦是一对矛盾的统一体。孩童时期有过挫折痛苦的经历,会给他们在成年后带来益处,但绝大多数父母并没认识到这一点。父母大都倾尽全力为孩子能享受到快乐创造条件,不愿意看到孩子受到任何失败和挫折,更不会有意识地去训练和提高孩子对待痛苦的心理承受力。某些心理学家认为,痛苦其 For a long time, psychology and education have been advocating happy childhood theory. However, some recent psychologists have put forward another point of view. They think that children should be tested in frustration and pain when they seek happiness. In the process of life, happiness and suffering are a contradictory unity. Having had setbacks and painful experiences in childhood gives them benefits in adulthood, but most parents do not recognize this. Most parents make every effort to create conditions for their children to enjoy happiness. They do not want to see their children suffer any failures and setbacks, nor do they consciously train and improve their psychological endurance. Some psychologists think it painful