贾宝玉是《红楼梦》中的一个尴尬人:在其成长历程中,父亲正面形象的缺位和扭曲,使其丧失了对男性角色世界的认同感,而其他男性亲属混乱的生活,更导致了贾宝玉对于男性角色的背离;而作为身处女儿世界里的唯一男性,他却从未被女儿们视为同类而予以接纳,反而时时处处被要求其回归到男性的传统价值评估体系中去。 Jia Baoyu is an embarrassed person in A Dream of Red Mansions. In the process of its growth, the absence and distortion of the positive image of the father has caused him to lose his recognition of the male role of the world. The chaotic life of other male relatives has led to Jia Baoyu deviated from the male role; however, as the only male in the world of daughters, he was never accepted as similar by his daughters. Instead, he was constantly urged to return to the male traditional value evaluation system.